How do you see yourself 3, 5 or 10 years from now? The for sure answer is, you will definitely arrive. But still the real question is, what kind of result did you become?
Here are the steps that you can take to develop yourself.
Step one, Learn. You need to increase your knowledge by reading books, listen to audio books, watching videos, and picking up ideas from other people. All of this can, expand your knowledge. This will expand your understanding and your skills.
Step two, Action. you have to act on what you have learned. Learning is useless if you don’t know how to act on it. You need to put it, into action. Without practicing what you have learned, you will just be called book smart. In anything that you have learned, either serving, computer, construction, relationship guru, financial consultant, are needing action. By putting it in action, you can learn what to adjust, what works and does not work.
Step three, become good and expert at it. There is a saying, jack of all trades, master of none. You don’t want to be the person knowing it all, but don’t master one. Make sure you’ll master at least one and become good at it.
Step four, your attitude and discipline must be in the right place. Achieve good attitude by changing your mindset and environment. You need to have an environment that will encourage you, and build you up. Develop a self discipline and control over everything that you do.
Step five, learn to relax and enjoy the moment. There is a saying, two steps forward, and one step back. You don’t need to keep moving forward all the time. Sometimes, you need a break, find that moment where you can rest. A well rested person is well constructive and able to build person. The person who keeps going, and hard on himself and others, will not get there as planned. Get your mind off the track for a bit, until you are reconditioned. You have to know how to balance your life. Don’t try to over work and over board. Relax!
Formula for Personal Development
PD = (learn+action) x (attitude+discipline) / relaxation
All this steps, equates into lifestyle. You need to know how to live life to it’s fullest, by having a lifestyle. You need to know how to enjoy your success. The things you have learned and applied are part of personal development. But you have to make a decision, do I want to change and be serious? It’s your choice.